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A secret relationship
Poll Expired: March 21, 2008
Total Votes: 238
Me and this guy have been intimate for 4 years. Some of his friends and my friends suspect that there is something going on between us- but to most we let on that we're just friends. We both like each other alot but both have been hurt too many times and am afraid to get into anything. I'm willing to try it with him- but he says he's not ready. How do I know if he will ever want me as more than a secret lover? He has told me before that he has feelings for me but can't act on them. What am I to do. I really care about him alot.
55.4% - (132 Votes)
Talk to him about it and give him more time.
22.2% - (53 Votes)
Stop seeing him unless he agrees to have a more 'normal' and public relationship.
10.5% - (25 Votes)
Talk to my best friends about it and see what they think.