I say 'I love you' - she says 'you too.'
Poll Expired: March 25, 2008
Total Votes: 139
I have been dating this girl for about three months. At first things were incredible, she couldn't get enough of me. She is very attractive and I feel like she's out of my league sometimes, which causes me to be shy around her. We met just before school started and everything was awesome, but since school we only see each other about once a week (she has a lot of extra curricular activities). She hasn't tried to show affection towards me much, although we do kiss when we say goodbye to each other and hug. I started telling her I loved her about a month ago, which I do (this is my first relationship) and she always replies 'you too.' Recently I asked her why she has never said 'I love you' to me, and she said ''I know it hurts you and I don't mean to, it's just that I have been hurt before and I want to be careful. I do have feelings for you and in time I will let you know." Also, when she introduces me to her friends, she says "this is my friend" - not boyfriend. Is she taking time to fall in love with me, or what?
| 45.3% - (63 Votes)||Talk to her about my feelings and see if she considers me her boyfriend or not.|
| 30.2% - (42 Votes)||Give her more time and see if she comes around.|
| 14.3% - (20 Votes)||Stop hugging her and kissing her and she how she reacts.|
| 5% - (7 Votes)||Find someone else to go out with and forget about her.|
| 5% - (7 Votes)||Break up with her completely.|