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Nothing to talk about... Lack of self-confidence, self-esteem

   Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth - Lack of Self-Confidence and Self-Esteem

Dear Dr. TRuth,

I've been going out with a guy for almost a year. But the problem is that I don't really talk about anything.

He's always telling me to talk about something, but I never have anything to talk about.

I don't know what it is, but I'm afraid that he will leave me.


Dear Fearful,

You lack some serious self-confidence.

Why are you so fearful of rejection?

Why are you so frightened to express yourself?

If he's been seeing you for a year, he obviously sees something in you.

Think of it like this: what do you talk about with other people?

What makes you a unique and important individual?

What makes you special and wonderful?

Think hard and find the things within yourself that excite and interest you.

Do you have anything in your life that is just too neat for words!

Bottom line is that we have to really love and value ourselves before anyone else can really love and value us.

That makes the thought of abandonment a lot less scary.

If he wants you to talk, even if you can't think of anything to say, ask him about himself, his interests, what he did that day, etc.

The more you stay silent and hold back, the more fearful you will become. Tell him that it is sometimes hard for you to talk openly but that you want to.

Do the two of you share any interests in common?

When you go to the movies, do you discuss what you've seen?

Life is so full of so many things...surely there is something you can find to say.
My concern here is that you have not yet discovered the your own specialness and that makes it hard for you to share yourself.

Once you do, this problem will be gone.

Dr. TRuth

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Love advice for a girl in a relationship who doesn't feel like she has anything to talk about with her boyfriend.. Dr. TRuth suggests she builds up her self-confidence and self-esteem -- relationship and dating advice