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Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth |
Dear Doctor TRuth,
Hi. I have a problem. I am 15 years old and I have a friend who I think I'm
in love with.
She's 18 but I know she doesn't mind going with younger guys (she went with my 15 year old friend). Anyway, I cant stop thinking of her all day long and I day dream about her alot.
The problem is that one of my best friends likes her alot. He doesn't know how I feel about her, in fact nobody does. I found out from someone else that she doesn't feel the same way about my friend as he does about her. She kinda likes him but, "not as much as he likes her."
I sometimes think that she likes me by the way she acts around me, and the look we sometimes give each other but she has no idea that I like her.
She's not the same race as me and my parents see that as weird, I love everything about her.
I don't want to mess up our friendship and I don't know
what to do.
Can you help me out?
In Love
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Dear "In Love"
How do you feel about talking to her?
Trust your instincts. We usually can sense when someone likes us.
As far as the racial issue goes: that is your call. Also, I see nothing wrong with it if she is a good person.
I know you are a good friend to your buddy but he really has no claim on her. Ask him if he would mind it if the two of you got together. If he says yes, you will have to choose whether or not it would feel right to be with her. If he minds, it would probably be best to let it go for a while, especially if he is a really close friend.
Sorry, there is no easy solution to this one.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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