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Dear Dr. TRuth,

I really need some advice. I recently met this girl at orientation for this new job I started, it is at a huge office so we don't really work together.
I think she is really great and I want to get to know her better. The thing is I'm already in a relationship and have a girlfriend.
We have been dating for about one and a half years now. She has broken up with me on several occassions but I always managed to kiss up and get her back.
She hasn't broken up with me because I cheated or anything like that, it's just that we are both so different and we both sometimes agree that we are not compatible.
Now this other girl that I met seems to like me but she is always so busy, she goes to school full time and works part time. When I call her she never really has time to talk to me and says that she will call me back but then she doesn't.
Is she just playing games ? Maybe she is still immature, I don't know?
I just can't stop thinking about this girl and I know it's not fair to the girl I have been with the past year and a half. I don't know what to do.
Should I pursue this new girl and risk losing something that is already there or should I stay with the old girl and maybe get dumped again in the future?
I can't get this new girl off my mind.


Dear "Tortured"

I don't think either of these girls is "the one."

First of all, think about this!

You are actually emotionally cheating on your present girlfriend by asking another woman out.

Second, you have unresolved issues with woman #1 and nothing ever gets resolved.
She dumps you, you kiss up, and you are back together.
Does anything ever really get talked over or worked out? I don't think so. So you have to decide about Woman #1 before you make any other moves.

When and if you decide to be free of this highly neurotic relationship, you can figure out if Woman #2 who, by the way, has not given you any signals that she is interested, is available.

Relationships aren't there just so you won't be lonely, they are there because you learn to honestly care for and love somebody.

It sounds to me like you are only with the first woman because you can't be alone and now you like someone else but you are still with the first woman just in case it doesn't work out with the second woman!

Does this make any sense to you at all, because I certainly don't see it!

Maybe you need to take some time to yourself and figure out what you really want in a woman.

After that, you will be emotionally free to choose someone who can love and value you for yourself.

Dr. TRuth

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