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Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth |
Dear Dr. TRuth,
I was friends with a girl last year and then it turned into a
relationship. We only went out for a month but I really liked this girl...
I thought she was the one - until one day she told me she had cheated
on me with 3 guys in one weekend.
Nothing major..just kissing but I
still broke up with her.
Ever since I have quit dating and I have a
somewhat of a dislike for women and I really hate her..
I always think that
all women are sluts and I know all aren't but every one I come in contact
with turns out bad.
Everyone tells me I'm to young to give up(19) but I
don't care...every girl makes me sick and I don't wanna waste my sweetness
and kindness on people who will just hurt me! And no Im not gay!
Please
write me back soon and tell me how I can get over her.
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Dear Recovering
Wow! Sounds like this girl really did a numnber on
you!
Your trust in women has really been shattered but
please remember that this is only temporary. As we go
through life, we have many bad experiences but each
one of these exists so that we can learn more about
ourselves and the type of people we want to be with.
So one girl hurt you, so what! You might have thought
she was the one, but I guess she wasn't!
All that
means is that the right one is going to appear one
day.
If you isolate yourself, you will not be
available to meet her... and then what!
In the
meantime, while you are getting over this, take
really good care of yourself, work on your pride and
self-confidence, and keep your distance from
enmeshments with women in general.
Treat girls only
as friends and companions but do not get emotionally
involved.
Believe it or not, one day, your pain will
leave you and the perfect girl will appear. I
guarantee it.
And I want to know when it happens.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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