Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth
Dear Dr. TRuth,
I am 15 years old and I have been
seeing a guy who's 17.
We talk and everything for
hours on the phone and I have been to his house twice,
both times we spent most of our time together on his
bed making out.
I am not the kind of girl that would
let him go any farther though, and he seems to be okay
I like him a lot, and he seems to like me
too, but he hasn't ask me out yet and we have known
each other for a month.
He keeps telling me that he
will do it "when he finds the right time."
tells me that he is playing me, and that he's just
going to try and get some from me and that he doesn't
really like me, and I don't know what to think!
him so much, and he seems to like me. we talked about
the whole sex situation and I told him that if we went
out he would have to wait a while, at least six
months, so I could be sure we wouldn't just be doing
it for the hell of it and to make sure it would mean something,
and he seemed
cool with that.
It just really hurts that everyone
tells me that he doesn't like me, and then he will
call and be so sweet to me.
What is he getting
I think it's cool you like him but by now he
definitely should have asked you out.
I think you
should let him know that it is just not cool with you
to go to his home and hook up without him showing you
the respect of dating you.
My advice is to let him
know that if he wants to date you, you are open to
him, but you don't want to be just a "hook-up" for
Whether you like him a lot or not, he needs to do
what it takes to prove it: this means asking you out
and treating you like a person he respects and admires
when you both are in the vertical position.
I am not
saying he is playing you, but I am saying that he is
not handling this like a guy who is crazy about you.
Have the courage to tell him what you need.
If he has
genuine feelings about you, he will do the right
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