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I Really Love My Boyfriend, but I Cheated on Him ...
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Dear Dr. TRuth,
I have been with Sam for almost a year now, almost the whole time we have been together I have been unfaithful to him mainly with the father of my child who I left for being unfaithful to me.
I began my relationship with Sam knowing that I wasn't over my ex. I thought time would heal, and eventually I would love Sam just as much.
Sam loves me so much, there is no doubt about that. He treats me well, respects my wishes and pleases me in the bedroom.
So I'm not cheating for the sex. I'm cheating for love.
Should I tell Sam the truth and break his heart?
Should I not tell him to save his heart?
Should I be true to my own heart and go back with my ex?
Cheater
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Dear "Cheater"
Wow!! You have created quite a mess for yourself.
You are sleeping with your ex who cheated on you and who fathered your child and lying to the man who treats you like a queen. What's wrong with this picture!
You obviously don't feel you deserve very much because the man you love is the man who cheats. The man who loves you is not the one you want.
I think you need to work things out with your ex if possible. He is your child's father and you still love him.
Ask him to go counseling with you. If you still love him, he is the one you should be with. As far as Sam goes, you are not "saving his heart" by deceiving him.
How did you feel when you found that your ex treated you that way?
Above all, be honest with yourself. If you are still in love with your ex, you can't really move on, can you?
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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