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Dear Dr. TRuth,

I've been with my fiance for 2 years. I have lived with him for one year.

We have been engaged for 16 months and now I feel like a nagging housewife.

He watches my every step, I go to work and he rings me to see what I am doing.
He meets me at the bus stop after work.
We don't go out anymore because he doesn't want other men looking at me.
Basically I feel like a child. I seem to be constantly miserable and if I am happy he wants to know why (just in case I'm having an affair!).

I love him very much but I don't know if this is the person I want to be with for the rest of my life.

Recently I have met a man 6 years older than me who I am very attracted to. He sends me flowers all the time, chocolates, teddies you name it.
Over the last week he has taken me out everyday in the little spare time I get.

I have slept with him and he tells me he likes me alot and wants to spend his life with me.

I don't want to carry on cheating, but I dont know which path to take.

Twenty Confused

Dear "Confused"

You already know the answer to your question!

I think you have gotten to know your fiance well enough to know that neither of you is really ready to marry.

Just the fact that you are cheating on him during your engagement, usually a time when people at least try to stay faithful, is a very bad sign.

I don't know if you have anywhere else to go, but if I were you, I would simply tell him that you don't think you're ready for this kind of commitment and that you need some time to think.

Please don't forget that people change so much in their early twenties that you might be a completely different person in a few years.

I would caution you against marrying him at this point. You will only continue to feel guilty about the cheating and you have already formed an emotional attachment to a man who is more mature.

Further, his possessiveness is not healthy and the fact that you already feel like an old married women does not bode well for a successful future together.

Give yourself a break here.

It will work out better in the long run. Trust me on this.

Dr. TRuth

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