List of Top Ten Flirting Tips
By Fran Greene
10. Flirting is an attitude:
A good flirt is self-confident and not afraid to take risks.
Be
enthusiastic and positive, it works!
9. Start a conversation:
The best opening line is saying hello.
Talk about the surroundings, ask a question, ask for help, state an opinion.
8. Have fun:
Be
playful, light-hearted and spontaneous.
Show your vulnerability.
7. Use props:
Never leave home
without a prop.
Props are natural conversation starters. They encourage conversation and others
will be compelled to start talking to you.
Great props include: dogs, kids,
unusual jewelry, a
irresistable scent,
a sweatshirt with your favorite passion, interesting
ties, hats, or an interesting
book or newspaper.
6. Be the host:
Change your behavior from the role of guest to host.
You are
not the passive person in waiting, but rather the welcome committee.
5. Make the first move:
Move closer to the person you want to meet.
Say hello!
4. Listen:
You have two ears and one
mouth because you should listen twice as much as you speak.
Listening is a true art. Your flirting
partner will be drawn to you.
Everyone loves to be heard.
3. Eye contact:
Make eye contact, but
please look your partner in the eye gently (no more than 2-4 seconds) and then glance away.
Don’t stare – it’s a turn off.
2. Compliment:
Compliment your flirting partner. The best
compliments have the element of surprise.
The "flirtee" will know that you really noticed them.
Remember, your compliments must be honest, sincere and genuine.
When you receive a
compliment the best response is merely, Thank You!
1. Smile:
It is contagious.
It will make you
so much more approachable.
A smile lights up your face and draws people to you. You will be a
people magnet.
Try it!
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