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Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth |
Dear Doctor TRuth:
Lately I've been getting a lot of guys
telling me I'm hot and liking me. I see my friends
in serious relationships and it makes me feel SO sad.
I don't know why, I've always told myself that I could
do fine with just fooling around with guys...but I
have really been missing the romance part.
I haven't
dated anyone for about 1/2 a year.
The last two guys
I was interested in I just went out with for one
night and never talked to them again.
All these
people that have been saying they like me also won't
talk to me.
I need to be in a relationship
desperately.
I just need to know why all these guys
are liking me but won't do anything about it, what am
I doing wrong???
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Dear "Desperate,"
You obviously are a very attractive girl with no
confidence in yourself. Guys get attracted to looks
and beauty but what really keeps them interested is
charm and self confidence.
Ask yourself why your self
esteem is so low that you fear people losing interest
in you if they get close to you. Your not having a
relationship when you are as cute as you are is simply
a matter of lack of emotional readiness, or else,
something has happened to you in your life which has
made you very afraid of getting closer to people.
What is it about yourself you don't like?
My
advice is to work on your self esteem by taking
extremely good care of yourself, doing well at your
life activities and being happy and confident in who
you are.
Once we have this really good relationship
with ourselves, it naturally follows that we can have
a really good relationship with someone else.
Oh, and stop looking at your friends and what they
have. Everyone gets emotionally ready for a
relationship at different times.
Just take care of you
and the rest will follow.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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