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Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth |
Dear Doctor TRuth:
My boyfriend and I have been going together for at
least a month and some days.
The problem is that I don't know how to talk
to him and I don't know
his middle name favorite color nor his favorite
music.
I think I love him and
I am not sure if he loves me.
And I want to have sex
with him but he hasn't
mentioned it.
Please help me.....
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He may be your boyfriend but you know absolutely
nothing about him.
You don't say how old you are but I
think being somebody's girlfriend means that you have
known each other for a while and that you do know how
to talk to him and certainly more about what he likes
and dislikes than you do.
Further, you may think you
love him but love means knowing and understanding the
person that you love. You may be deeply attracted to
him but love means far more than this.
As far as
having sex, you are far from ready to go that far.
And it doesn't seem like he's asking either.
Please
give this relationship time to unfold before you let
yourself "go all the way." What's the rush? You seem
way too insecure about his feelings and your own
feelings at this point.
My advice is to give it time
to grow. Find out if this is really the person you
love before you decided whether or not to sleep with
him.
I hope you don't think that sleeping with a guy
is the way to his heart.
You have to find out the way
to his heart before you part with your own.
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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