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Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth on Flirting |
Dear Doctor TRuth,
I have question on flirting.
I'm doing it all the
time but it's never
successful and now that I met this guy I'm trying to
flirt but I just get lost
or so confused.
I don't want to see him on a date with
another girl but with me
like this I'm sure that will happen.
What should I
do?
When I give him the eye
contact and he looks back I look away immediately
and it seems like I don't
like him.
I don't have enough courage to look at him
more than a second when he
looks back at me.
Sometimes I see him looking at
me but I don't dare to
look back.
I think that he might like me even he's
not showing it but I
still don't know what to do.
I don't know - should I
tell him that I like him
because I don't know if I have courage for that
either.
Thank you...
Uncertain Flirtin'
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Dear Uncertain,
The eye contact thing is good and looking away isn't
bad either but sooner or later you will have to get up
enough courage to say hi, smile and give him a
compliment about something you notice about him.
You
don't have to come right out and tell someone you like
them but you do have to radiate confidence and
charisma.
Acting shy and withdrawn gets people
nowhere.
Those who do well in these situations can
rise above their own insecurities (and everybody has
them) and make others feel important and interesting.
This is the real secret of human relationships.
We
are all inwardly insecure and those people who take an
interest in us make us feel fantastic.
Try it!
If it
doesn't work with him, believe me, someone else will
notice the "new you."
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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