Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth
Dear Dr. TRuth,
I caught my boyfriend looking at male pornography on
that he was just "curious" and that he has only done
it on one or two other
Before this happened we rarely had sex
and never spent time
We've been together for two years and I'm
afraid that maybe I'm
just there to make him look like he is a
I'm presently staying
with some friends, but still talking to him on the
phone every day.
him terribly but I'm scared to go back and I feel
uncomfortable around him.
He says he wants me ONLY and that I can trust him,
but I don't feel that I
What should I do?
Looking at male pornography is not enough to convict
him of being gay even though this would not be the
norm for most straight guys.
Ask yourself the
following questions before making a decision:
he seem turned on to you?
2. Does he have any history
of gay experiences?
3. When you say you rarely had
sex, could he explain why?
What is making you so
Is it that you think he might be gay or
that you just pick up on that vibe?
Bottom line is
that he doesn't seem like he's telling you and you
don't feel like you are getting a straight answer.
would trust my instincts.
We all know when someone is
turned on by us and you don't seem to be feeling that
He may be bisexual or just plain curious but
if this makes you feel too uncomfortable, maybe this
just isn't a safe bet!