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Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth |
Dear Dr. TRuth,
I caught my boyfriend looking at male pornography on
the internet.
He says
that he was just "curious" and that he has only done
it on one or two other
occassions.
Before this happened we rarely had sex
and never spent time
together.
We've been together for two years and I'm
afraid that maybe I'm
just there to make him look like he is a
heterosexual.
I'm presently staying
with some friends, but still talking to him on the
phone every day.
I miss
him terribly but I'm scared to go back and I feel
uncomfortable around him.
He says he wants me ONLY and that I can trust him,
but I don't feel that I
can.
What should I do?
Thank you.
Scared...
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Dear Scared,
Looking at male pornography is not enough to convict
him of being gay even though this would not be the
norm for most straight guys.
Ask yourself the
following questions before making a decision:
1. Does
he seem turned on to you?
2. Does he have any history
of gay experiences?
3. When you say you rarely had
sex, could he explain why?
What is making you so
uncomfortable?
Is it that you think he might be gay or
that you just pick up on that vibe?
Bottom line is
that he doesn't seem like he's telling you and you
don't feel like you are getting a straight answer.
I
would trust my instincts.
We all know when someone is
turned on by us and you don't seem to be feeling that
at all!
He may be bisexual or just plain curious but
if this makes you feel too uncomfortable, maybe this
just isn't a safe bet!
Sincerely,
Dr. TRuth
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