Relationship Advice from Dr. TRuth
Dear Doctor TRuth:
This boy's asked me out and he has had loads of experience with girls but I've never
even kissed anyone before!
I'm 15 and think it's about time I got over this fear but have no idea how to french kiss.
Please don't tell me it comes naturally. Are there any instructions you can give me?
I really like him and don't want to muck it up coz I can't kiss.
Dear "Can't kiss,"
If he has loads of experience and you have none, let
him take the lead. Watch what he does and then do it
back to him.
Relax AND DON'T WORRY! If he likes you,
it won't be because you can kiss or not! Hopefully,
he will like you because you are a cool girl!
why you have this fear! Is it just lack of experience
or has something frightened you about kissing?
The best advice I have is to enjoy yourself. Kissing
with someone who knows how is delightful. If you open
your mouth slightly, he will take the lead. The more
you relax and let yourself feel it, he will understand
that he is doing it right!
Also, just because someone
has a lot of experience doesn't mean they know what to
do. It just means they have done it a lot!
Try not to be so intimidated by this guy. There is a
first time for everyone and the only way to get over
it is to do.
I can give you all the technique in the
world but I honestly think the whole key is to learn
Go for it.